Coaching Questions
What do you need to do so that this experience, good or bad is valuable to you?
Awareness and Action
Like a blindfolded man who has never learned to drive, sitting behind the wheel of a speeding car on a busy road. He is unlikely to reach his destination without mishap. He may think that he is driving the car, but actually the car is driving him. If he wants to avoid an accident, let alone arrive at his goal, he should remove the blindfold, learn how to operate the vehicle, and steer it out of danger as quickly as possible. Similarly, we must become aware of what we do and then learn to perform actions that will lead us where we really wish to go.
Common sense will tell you that for things to change you would be wise to do something different.
Working with me as your Coach for a short while or for a season is more affordable than you think and may well change the way you practice and play the game, for the better.